A willingness to teach and support others is an essential leadership skill. However, it’s critical to maintain awareness of the areas we are qualified and not qualified to provide mentorship. Offering advice about topics you aren’t knowledgeable about can do more harm than good.
Identify your top strengths and maintain your guidance in these areas. Refer your mentee to a colleague with specialized expertise when needed.
Example: Your mentee asks you, an experienced project manager, for your opinion on a career in human resources. You may offer a brief perspective, but the best option is to refer your mentee to a colleague in the HR department to gain insight into the career path.
Maintain Your Presence
Presence is essential for all leadership conversations. Grounding yourself in the present moment enables you to practice active listening, fully engage in the discussion, and respond to social signals.
Offering mentorship while distracted is a disservice to your mentee. Don’t be afraid to reschedule a conversation if you aren’t performing at your best.
Example: As an IT leader, your team has been troubleshooting a major bug fix for two days. You’re laser-focused on finishing the job and preventing it from happening again. When you open your meeting calendar for the day, you realize you have scheduled a Zoom call with your mentee.
Given the unexpected workload within the IT team, you may want to reschedule the call with your mentee if you aren’t confident that you can remain present. In this case, rescheduling shows that you value their time and providing the best guidance possible.
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